If you have a question about moving from casual dating to a serious relationship that I didn’t answer, leave a comment below the article and I’ll get back to you within a couple days.

Q: I’ve been dating this person for months, and when I ask if we’re a serious couple or not, the subject gets changed or I get ignored altogether. One, they’re interested but not good at communicating or are feeling pressured and don’t like it.

Whatever your answer is, that’s the main cause of your behaviour.

Two, they don’t want to get serious but want the other benefits of dating.

Let them know what you’re looking for and pull back a bit.

If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.

Watch for these milestones, and you’ll know if the casual dating phase is almost over.

3) This Secret Psychology Brain Hack Here’s a way to discover how you might be sabotaging yourself without knowing it.

When you go on a date, what do you think the purpose is?

Dating Tips and Q&A with Yours Truly I wrote the first version of this article in 2012, and since then I’ve gotten hundreds of emails and comments asking about what to do in certain situations.

Here are the most common questions and my answers to each.

If you emotionally vomit on someone and spill your whole life story during the first three dates, where’s the fun in that?