I met my husband December 8th and he was the best Christmas present EVER, and still is…five years later.

Today, we’ll discuss a major pitfall to finding love on-line. I want for your on-line dating experience to have a happy ending like mine, so I’m here to help you spot cheaters and players before they can sink their claws in and do damage. Chronic Cheaters and Pathological Players Abound On-Line There are people who are chronic cheaters or pathological players, and the Internet is a perfect place to “hunt.” These creeps don’t even care about the person they’re currently sleeping with, dating or MARRIED to, so why would they care about you? Filters are Filters Not Lie Detectors Just because a cute gal claims she’s single, doesn’t mean she is.

To my surprise many singles realize when they are on the brink of wasting their time with someone.

These are predators in my opinion who don’t give you enough information to make a decision on whether to date them or not.

Or worst, they make you think that they want what you want and lead you on for so long it becomes more and more difficult to walk away.

There behavior sucks, but you keep remixing it into something acceptable because you don’t want to admit to yourself that you’re with a time waster.

These type of no good timewasters always require your defense.

Time wasters do nothing more than waste the valuable time you could be placing into a positive, progressing, potential relationship with someone else.

They have the allure of what maybe a high ROI but at the end of the day it’s like waiting in line for the Ipad 2 only to discover, it’s sold out. So how can you tell if you are involved with a timewaster?We have a lot on our plates and don’t have time for time-wasters, jerks, users or predators.The holidays are coming and many of you might want to spend them with someone fun, and I say GO FOR IT!Just because a guy says he’s “looking to settle down,” doesn’t mean he isn’t using that line to gut-hook the foolish.In fact, chronic cheaters often will purposely search for those who want to settle down. Because people who are eager to put down roots are more likely to overlook when things don’t add up.What have you done in the time since you’ve met to now? Has life as you know it gone from bad to worse, good to bad or stayed the same? Not to say that they are bad people but they are selfish people only interested in needs.