Normal high school relationships are dramatic enough, but ours now had the added pressure of being seen by MTV viewers across the country as well as being manipulated by the show's producers, a set of adults who were suddenly very involved in the intricacies of our lives." According to Cavallari, the producers played a part in the memorable Stephen/LC/Kristin love triangle, and it affected the real-life romance.

"One of the most hurtful things they did was pressure Stephen to spend time with another girl from the show, Lauren, while he and I were dating," she recalls in her book.

"After high school, I dated some not-so-great guys," she recalls.

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I had known for years and saw what jerk he was to women…

My gut told me thousand times to run the other way, but my insecurity kept me around for all of this BS." Then, there was the frog who wanted fame. I didn't figure this out until after we broke up," she reveals.

When I was in the middle of filming The Hills, I got a phone call from my publicist saying that Jay Cutler wanted to fly me to Chicago and take me on a date…

I always thought of this as a pretty ballsy move, like you think very highly of yourself, and it turned me off a little." Years later, Cavallari discovered that Cutler wasn't the one to put in a call, but it was one of his Bears teammates. lifestyle — the clubbing and the superficial people." It was ultimately Cavallari's mom who reminded her daughter of Cutler's request, and a meet-and-greet was orchestrated.

The ' Shake It Off' star may only be 25 but she's had her pick from some of the hottest and most talented men in the industry.

Get your #jealous hashtags at the ready as we take a look at Ms. "I had a great boyfriend, Stephen, with whom I had a typical teenage romance," she writes in her book."He was my entire world, and we loved hard and fought hard…"I always go after what I want in life, with men or otherwise, and I never settle. It's just who I've always been," she writes. A few things needed to change, and I knew the only way Jay would see how serious I was, was if I ended the relationship." The two, however, reconciled and got engaged for the second time in January 2012. ) Not everything was smooth sailing after the couple reconciled. Unfortunately, something went wrong with her 12-pound Maltipoo, Brando, who bit her face on her big day. he could barely understand me through my sobbing." Cutler, however, was able to coax her, and lucky for him! "If you had asked me 10 years ago when I was going to have kids, I would have told you I'd be the last of my friends, because my entire world revolved only around me," Cavallari writes."The morning of the wedding, I was at home with some family… "Later during his speech at the wedding, he would tell everyone, including me, that he thought I was calling off the wedding! "But meeting Jay and a few years of growing up changed everything."A couple of years before I met Jay, I dated one guy who, as it turned out, was seeing me in L. plus another girl in New York City the entire time," she shares.