Pick something specific she wrote about herself, and ask her a follow-up about it.

’” — Kristen, 27 The problem..the solution: Aside from the obvious inappropriate nature of the comment to a complete stranger, men should never mention their physical characteristics or their own body parts in an introductory message.

Women are easily scared away online, so you should avoid saying anything remotely controversial or predatory.

There’s obviously a reason she didn’t think it would work out, so why keep trying to pursue someone who is clearly not interested in you?

Instead, channel your energy into meeting someone else. A general rule: once you’ve sent four messages back and forth, someone should ask someone out — preferably the man. [pagebreak] PRESSURE COOKERThe scenario: “I was really into someone I went on a few dates with, until he told me he was taking down his online dating profile and he wanted me to do the same.” — Jess, 34 The problem..the solution: Nothing will scare a girl faster than putting that kind of pressure on her too early into the relationship.

By pointing out your hesitations, she’s bound to assume you’re an insecure person. If you feel so inclined to explain yourself, wait to do it when you’ve met in person — and be confident about your reasons for joining.

GAMBLERThe scenario: “I got a message that said ‘Obviously you’re cute, but I’m just having trouble believing that this is actually you because you seem too good to be true.

The best thing about this site is that it shows you what other users are looking for and the strategies they are applying to get it.

The site has only 200,000 users which makes it possible for a user to find a mate they spent four years in college with or someone in the same college they were in. Ashley Madison Ashley Madison is all about cheating but this does not make it less popular.

” and “You’re gorgeous, I’d love to chat.” If you want to get her attention, try doing something a bit more personal.