in general, the cognitive dissonance an affair requires.Knowing the distance between her shower and her clothes/closet and that there is no privacy.I missed something else that she will remember for the rest of her life.

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At this point, it appears that things are better all the way around, for all concerned.

I keep updating this in hopes someone who reads it will gain a little more insight and receive the benefit of my experience.

We’ve discussed “taking a break” after January (which will still give us time to experience some things we already had planned).

Everyone involved, on either side of the equation, is involved in the journey together whether they like it or even acknowledge it.

It’s literally a 40 minute survey asking you the same question 37 different ways.

Granted, they were with several of our mutual friends.We’ve talked about what that looks like (no contact or just greatly reduced contact?Ostensibly it is to give her time to tend to the details of unraveling her current long-term relationship.During this time, we spent more time together than ever.But the reality of the change is still emotional and raw.And yet I still feel my skin crawling every time I think of the little things.