Normal girls don't lie because they don't have to and if you indo girlfriend is lying to you; it means that she is not behaving normally. Usually, she will say she has "problems at home", but don't take her word too seriously: Chances are she is angry because one of the expats she is dating stopped sending her money, or because she fought with her Indonesian guy.

There are no reasons to feel ashamed because you love someone, even a bargirl/prostitute, but at one point, you need to protect yourself from your girlfriend because miracles don't happen: Trust your instinct, and make a courageous decision. She doesn't trust you one bit, and never gives you any freedom when you want to go out with your friends in bars or night clubs.

Once again, it's not hard to understand her behaviour: How can you trust someone when you cannot be trusted?

If you have experienced or observed on other expat/bargirl couples some behaviours that could help other readers determine how sincere their relationship is, please feel free to share with us!

Right off the bat we were bombarded with chat requests from Asian women, that's the good news.

However, if you are looking for a serious partner, then do not tolerate a relationship based on mistrust and lies.

This is not an exhaustive list of all the signs that can exist showing your Indonesian girlfriend is cheating on you.

She will tell you that you are different, because your love is so special, etc..

Be smart and ask yourself if this is the kind of world you want to live in.

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It meant that if she wanted to call someone, she had to type a password first... Then, wherever she would go, she would always, always take her phone with her: In the toilet, in the shower, in the kitchen...