If she writes in her profile that she is studying a foreign tongue you happen to speak, open your first email to her by saying in that language “How was your day?

” Sometimes it’s necessary to do a bit of tweaking your profile to make this work.

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I tell all my single girlfriends who are looking for a man online and frustrated with wading through boringly similar (or offensively forward) responses: don’t be too likeable.

To find someone who clicks with you, someone who will like you for more than your cute smile and killer bod, talk about some of your personal quirks.

As someone with a bit of insight into both sides’ concerns, here is my advice.

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You’re better off approaching another woman who does share your enthusiasm for surfing or Italian food or country music.

Remember, there’s no such thing as an abstract “perfect woman.” But there is a woman who may be perfect for you (either long-term or short-term).Most reasonably attractive women with online dating profiles receive dozens of those kind of responses per week—in some cases, dozens per day.Your compliment won’t stand out from all the other responses in her inbox.Women, on the other hand, tell me they get quantity rather than quality in terms of men writing to them.It doesn’t take a genius or The Love Queen to deduce that these two problems are related.Set your search parameters to find a woman who enjoys the same authors, TV shows, movies or hobbies as you.