As I said, this is the most common situation for guys wanting to know how to get someone back – he got dumped by the chick because she lost attraction for him.

This is when thoughts of ending the relationship enter her head.

Picture this: you have two people, a master and a slave.

And that means they're going to show up in your dreams every now and then.

Source: Shutterstock If you recently talked to your ex, that conversation is probably fresh in your mind.

Your ex appearing in your dream might not be a result of anything except a random selection from your brain.

Have you tried your best to get her to change her mind and found that it hasn’t worked at all?

I’ve been ridiculously happy with my new boo so you can imagine my panic when I had a dream about my ex while I was staying over with my guy! In this dream, my ex managed to get all of our mutual friends together to throw me a surprise party. But the thing is, I have zero feelings for my ex (or any of them) and am completely content with what’s happening with my new relationship.

I literally woke up in a sweat and was hyperventilating because my brain was freaking out. Then he appeared out of nowhere to ask me to get back together by proposing to me. Fortunately, my guy didn’t wake up to notice me having a near panic attack. Logically, I know this dream was just a creation of my subconscious.

We need to figure out which Category your situation belongs in. When a girl stops feeling attracted to her boyfriend (or husband), the relationship goes stale for her, and if she has any dating market value left (i.e.