I never thought of singleness and the 5 love languages going together, but this book offers a new perspective.It’s easy to feel discontentment, or even a bit of bitterness, as we reluctantly obey. I’m Cassidy, a 21 year old dreamer with a passion for Jesus, blogging, and people.

Take responsibility for your relationships by investing your time in people who value you.

Another thing that comes up again and again is the idea of women who feel that they give too much and men who, they feel, give too little.

Did I want what I wanted, or did I want what He wanted, no matter what it might cost?

” Elisabeth Elliot – Passion and Purity This book has been one of my must-reads on my to-read list. For this book, I really appreciated the perspective it offers about bring our passions under God’s guidance and control. And I’m not going to lie, I was pretty excited when I found it. Whenever I found that they had a singles edition, I knew it needed to go on my to-read list!

If you have ever heard the phrase, “become the person who the person you’re looking for is looking for”, you have heard a quote right out of this book.

One thing I loved about this book was the emphasis it placed on taking time to invest in your own spiritual life and personal growth before anything else.This book didn’t approach boundaries from a “legalistic” point of view.Rather, I felt like it approached boundaries from the perspective of creating healthy and God-honoring relationships through healthy choices within the relationship.But I think by answering the above questions in that way, we’re missing something pretty big: It seems to me that in some Christian circles, we have created a culture that tells single women that they must wait on men to make the first move, that they should give the brunt of responsibility in relationships to the man.There’s nothing wrong with wanting a man to take some initiative in a relationship, but women also need to take responsibility for their relationships. What will others think if they find out I’m a virgin? And quite frankly, there were a lot of questions I was just too afraid to ask.