This type has the package of looks, success, personality and appeal that makes him or her desirable to a lot of people.Often, the “person with a lot of options” resists settling down and uses having lots of options as a reason to not commit to any one person (they are having too much fun enjoying not having to choose just one person).

Are convincing and chasing really part of the love story that you want to tell?

We’ve all heard stories about serial daters and commitment phobes who finally change when they meet their “match.” But here is what I have observed about this phenomenon: it is true that we can be catalysts for another person’s change, but in most cases in order to be that catalyst we have to be totally unattached to being it.

Or perhaps you have some limiting beliefs about your worthiness, which are fueling your pattern of chasing after crumbs.

And as much as you want to receive love, there is something about it that scares you.

There is nothing wrong with relationship gaming if you want to build a relationship based on strategy rather than authenticity.

But if you want an authentic, intimate, spiritual partnership, get out of the game.If you truly value commitment, why are you going after someone who doesn’t? As much as you say you want someone to be in a loving, intimate and committed relationship with you, part of you may not think it’s possible.Maybe you’ve been hurt in the past by a committed relationship and unconsciously you are putting effort into a relationship that will never become committed as a way to protect yourself.If you give a black cloth to someone, you will go to that person’s funeral. Watch / Clock นาฬิกา /naa-lí-gaa/ It is believed that if your loved one gives you a watch or clock, your relationship might be over like the clock stops ticking. Perfume น้ำหอม /náam-hăwm/ As Thai people like to say if you don’t believe it, don’t disparage it.Many Thai think giving perfume to your partner could make your love lessen like the scent of the perfume that is fade away over time. Photograph of Yourself รูปถ่าย /rûup-tàai/ Another thing that you absolutely don’t want to give to your darling is the photo of yourself because giving a photo for memory when you are apart. Handkerchief ผ้าเช็ดหน้า /pâa-chét-nâa/ Thai believe that handkerchief is used for wiping tears, so someone who receives a handkerchief as a gift will lose their tears.If you choose the latter, then you are entering into what I call relationship gaming.