I shouldn’t have to explain that it is the gender of the people you choose as partners and not the activities you choose to do with those partners that determines your sexual orientation (and nor is any one sexual orientation better than another, although some are unfortunately afforded more privileges at this point in our history), but somehow it’s a revelation that is still just occurring to some people.

If you’re just looking for some no strings attached, erotic, anal sex because your current partner isn’t in to it, then there’s thousands of men and women who are just waiting to please you.

What’s stopping you from getting started with Tush Lover Dating today?

Some women report masturbating anally on their own or engaging in anal penetration with female partners, meaning it is possible to achieve pleasure from anal sex that has nothing to do with the involvement of men.

Then there are women like me who self-identify as masochists and for whom anal sex is enjoyable precisely because it is an act of suffering.

She claims she has evidence (anecdotal from her friends) that the large majority of women don’t like anal sex and that they shouldn’t have to put up with a growing societal expectation of it becoming a normal sex practice.

Urban Dater has since posted a rebuttal piece (hehehe, rebuttal), although whether it’s an apology from the site or infighting among its writers is unclear.

To imply that women who choose to have a certain kind of sex because they enjoy satisfying their partners is offensively patronizing.

Personally I think most women are big girls who are capable of making decisions about the kinds of sex they do and do not want to have, and I trust every consenting adult to act in their own best interest.

First of all, the fact that I say I enjoy anal sex should be enough for you to believe me.