What I really enjoyed was looking around, watching the girls dance and then picking one girl to take into a private booth, away from prying eyes where I could sit back and have her all to myself.

And if we bring the metaphor back to live cam sites, when you have the model all to yourself you get to direct the show.

But it definitely can be done and I have had some very good couples cam experiences.

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We became good friends first and we only started dating 2 years later.

Maybe I’m just not really portraying myself very well in my profile or something.

And most sites have at least a basic search and filters to help you narrow down your search and find that perfect kinky chick.

Lots of girls do anal (one of my favorites), plenty of women are ready to dominate you and provide some hot JOI if that’s your thing.

And by “experience,“ I don't mean watching some crappy free live feeds posted as a bonus in your good old cookie-cutter paysite members’ area. I mean truly immersing myself into the experience, partly out of curiosity as to what would make some men give tip a girl hundreds of dollars in a single shot, but mostly to interact live with the type of women I loved having in my porn collection.

And as I spent more and more time browsing live cam sites and seeing what they all offered, I came to realize that I'm the kind of person who enjoys intimate one-on-one private experiences with a cam girl.

Like, OKCupid gives you a percentage of match or non-match you are with certain people.

In hindsight, I suppose if I had stayed active with it for a little longer MAYBE I would have encountered a “nice” guy.

Tell her what you want to see and how you want to see it and most of the time your wish will be her command - just be polite, don't be a jerk and maybe ask her in the free chat what she does and doesn't do in private so you know before you head in there.

Now, I will say that the vast majority of my porn collection is hardcore rather than solo.

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