Is it the peer pressure of our friends, where conforming is expected in our youth?The one about how when things get difficult trying harder only makes things worse.

Try getting a bunch of girls together and keeping them focused.

Okay, if you’re going somewhere really nice, you might want to try dressing up a little, but still keep things simple.

It occurs to me that I was having so much fun that I completely forgot to obsess about the spare tire hanging over my bikini bottoms, or the way my body moved so much slower in the sand than it used to, or the fact that since injuring myself running a few months ago, I haven’t been exercising much at all.

, I found myself surrounded by love and fun and I simply don’t care for a moment.

Imagine my surprise when I saw someone mention The Awesome Girl's Guide last month.

Well she's back in a lesser role as the author of said self-help book.

The lazy girl solution is to bring another couple along.

No checking dating sites 24/7 or hitting the club in uncomfortable dresses just to hook up.

A guy’s favorite hangout isn’t the hottest new club.